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Monday, 28 September 2009
The question is why?Simple… good friends leads to a good life, good friends lead to good character and just like a good partner leads to a good life and good character; yes its seems simple but so are most of life questions like why do I not have friends? could it be you haven’t invested enough time in to making friends?)
Saturday, 19 September 2009
Now men are the worst at talking bout it. And I must admit I'm one of them, maybe its the male ego thing, maybe its the way society has subconsciously taught us, that its not OK for men to admit there feelings; that they should have it alltogether or something.
I'm going to try now to be brave and be honest in this post; I can't speak for all men. But for me its the simply fact of bearing my soul out to people and showing them my vulnerability, showing them that I have a lack and that if they see it; well they might not like it, or maybe its that I don't like it; yep I do confuse my self too' but I think you get the picture.
Loneliness can come in many forms. The worst for me so far is when you have many friends, and you seem to be a very busy and a active person, however when you in the mist of the crowd you just seem alone. What a oxymoron and yes I feel like a moron too at times. But yes I know what if one does not have friends? well I talk about that later.
However I am thinking why on earth I'm I lonely? why on earth I'm I feelings the things I feel? I then took a very hard look into my myself and I came to a conclusion its about connection, I hear you say WHAT?
Think about it; two people who are connected in love or get on so well with each other, tend not to feel lonely do they? with this theory in mind I will write my next paragraph: )
I think people loneliness heightens when they can't connect to people on a consistent level, or worst they just don't connect to anyone. A very simple analogy of this is have you ever been to a city or country by yourself that does not speak your language. You feel alone right!
Anyway when I'm talking about being alone when you're in a crowd , what I mean is there isn't anyone you really can connect with that meets your need....
I know its true with me, as I get older I seems to be yearning more for people that I can really connect with, that I can really get to know and they get to know me, that they not just being fickle.
5 solutions to be better connected with people.
1) Love your self and know yourself in the right way
2) Be interested in people
3) Be patient
4) spend time with people
5) remember people really are all the same they want to be connected, they all really want to talk; having this is in mind will increase your chances of finding people that you can connect on a special level.
Will expand on this more on my next post.
Monday, 17 August 2009
Ok this has got nothing to do with sex or faith or even electric guitars but it does help with you in doing all 3 and with saving some money especially through these hard times.
I'm a high user of contact lenses and I wear toric lenses as I have asitgmatism and if you go to some of the high street optician you will find they allot more expensive than normal ones.
for example if you just want normal contact lenses you can get them from £10 to £13 a month however toric contact lenses depending on you presercription and mine is very high and very weird one too..the optician says I have a very rugby ball eye shape ..whatever than means lol...anyway they charging me like £27 amonth I thought yakes I can get a Iphone line rental for that ..
anyway good news is there lots of cheap contacts lenses companies online check the folloing article to read how to choose a reputable online contact lenses company.
I saved up to 65% percent using online contact lenses company like the link below and they were identical to my original opticians ones instead of spending £27, it worked out like £10 a month as I payed for a 6 months batch.
Just make sure you have a up to date presription ...anyway check the site and read the discount contact buying tips online link above too..do some research maybe you find something cheaper than me.
Saturday, 2 August 2008
A Tip To Help Your Relationships
As I get older and of course, healthier and sexier lol, I realize there are a few things that can help people with relationships, in what ever kind of relationship it is whether that's , friends, best friends, boyfriend , girl friend, husband , wife....... I'm sure you you get the picture ...
Anyway while this post is going to be a irony in it self ...i'm going to give you something to think about....something of advice ....
OK here I go..
People don't necessary need your advice but they need you to be there for them.....A quote from something I read today put it into perspective
"Most of the time people don't need our wise analysis or brilliant answers, they just need our love and support and they'll find their own answers"
Could the above statement suggest something that all of us need to consider next time when we hear a love one or friend going on a rampage or getting upset or even worst both. To stop what is natural for all of us to do in those circumstances and that is give our view, our advice, our do's and dont's to them...
Instead maybe we should just accept them, understand them, take them to Mcdonalds for a Ice cream and cry, or go for a long drive with them......
I mean .......be honest with yourself when people give you advice how many times did their advice really sink in your hearts, however the people that have made the deepest impact in your life how many times have they just accepted you for you ..and that in the long run this made you think about things more clearly and made you turn around.
People are funny little things .... a majority are not logical , they not coherent ..they just Humans, full of emotions, and feelings, and just need to be accepted and valued!
bless ya ...hope you all have a wonderful day